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20 July 2019 

How to maximize the result of your coaching + 5 Tips!

Have you ever thought that this coaching will change everything because this time you get coaching from the best Self-Love coach or any other coach for that matter?

We always do a video-call first when someone wants to do a 1-on-1 coaching trajectory with us. During this call, people will always ask: What can I expect from you and the coaching? It’s an important question that we are happy to answer.

But have you ever thought about asking yourself the following questions first? 

What can I expect from myself during this coaching?
Am I willing to do what it takes to get the results I want?

In every coaching, you have to know what to expect from your coach AND in every coaching you have to do the work to get the result you want.

That’s why it’s important you are clear about what you are willing to do and what you don’t want to do before you start. It’s the only way to know if the expectations of you and your new coach will meet.

coaching conditionsWe’ve made you a list of 5 minimum conditions that will help you maximize the result of your coaching. This list brings clarity about what to expect from us or every other coach.

1. I do this coaching for myself

This seems logical but it isn’t. Too often people do coaching for their partner or for their employer because they think you need it. But it should be your OWN choice to do THIS coaching and to do it with THIS coach.

2. I ignite my self-healing ability

We believe that whatever coaching you follow, it needs to challenge you to awaken your Self-Healing ability at some level. The moment you connect your coaching with your own Self-Healing ability you will start to feel inwardly safe and inwardly free.

3. I step into my inner leadership

You’ve chosen this coaching because you know your needs and you realize that you need breakthroughs to get the results you want. That’s why we believe you have to be prepared to step into your Inner Leadership. Of course, we will teach you and help you how to do this. That’s what our coaching is all about.

4. I show up!

This means you not only show up the moment we have a coaching session. It also means that you have to do the work in between the sessions. Remember that you want to change something in your life, that’s why you have to be prepared to do whatever it takes.

5. I integrate what I have learned (I bring it into practice)

We strongly believe that you should integrate what you have learned in the coaching, into your daily life. It means that you communicate differently, that you act differently and that you meet different people. It also means that you won’t do what isn’t good for you anymore. Without integration there is no transformation.

This list will help you to answer this question for yourself: Am I willing to do what I need to do to get the results I want? 

We understand that at this point you don’t know exactly how to do all this. Our coaching is aimed at helping you to realize this. But we strongly believe that these are the 5 minimum requirements to achieve the results you are aiming for.

Make this list of 5 conditions your minimum winning coaching conditions for whatever coaching you follow! 

And believe us, the moment you don’t or can’t commit to these 5 minimum conditions, your coaching trajectory will not be successful.

Sorry if we burst your bubble here but this is the naked truth as we see it.

About the author
We are Briant [1958] & Jaldhara [1960] both Dutch. We started with personal development in our early twenties. And the inner journey we've made till so far in this lifetime, has gradually forged us into the Leaders in Inner Safety we are today. Our gift to you is our lifelong experience in facilitating the shift from Inner Unsafety to Inner Safety. In this process you will transition from Inner Turmoil to Inner Peace, from Inner Captivity to Inner Freedom and from Self-Denial to Self-Love.
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